The Cycle of Abuse is a repeating pattern of tension, violence, reconciliation, and calm that keeps many survivors trapped in abusive relationships. This article breaks down each phase—tension building, incident, reconciliation, and calm—highlighting how manipulation, gaslighting, and hope can make it hard to leave. Learn how to recognize the signs of emotional, verbal, or physical abuse and explore supportive steps to break free and begin healing in a safe and empowered way.